Man logic and relationships

The qualifications for a girl
1) Comfort with
2) Physical appearance
3) Mental attraction
-emotional attachment
4) Her level of kindness
-if shes complimentary to me
-is she good with kids (is she someone i would have  a kid with)
-will she take care of me -can she take care of herself

A man will know if a woman is right for him, because the connection they have is like no other, and when i look forward to the simple (little) things

QUALIFICATIONS FOR LONGTERM GIRLFRIEND
is my family going to like her
are my friends going to like her

My girlfriend is either long term or short term.
Casual relationship
Potential girlfriend material

1- long term girlfriend
2- fwb/fuckbuddy
3- option girlfriend
4- short-term girlfriend

Ill make her my fwb if i want to have sex with her but not want a relationship with her
My FWB(friend with benefits)
Talk to her/Go out and do things with her, and have sex with her.
THIS IS WHAT RELATIONSHIPS IN THE 21 CENTURY ARE
My fuckbuddy
Just have sex with her

MOST PLAYERS HAVE A BASE WOMAN AND TEND TO LOOK FOR MORE AFTER THEY HAVE ESTABLISHED THE 'BASE' BECAUSE IF YOURE LOOKING AND DONT FIND ANY ITS NICE TO HAVE BACKUP

Lack of effort doesnt mean he doesnt like you, he could have the mindset of 'relationships arent worth anything.' Basically
DATING AND BEING IN A RELATIONSHIP SEEM TO BE TWO DIFFERENT THINGS.  Which is the modern day relationships


KEEPING OPTIONS OPEN=DATING AROUND
RELATIONSHIP=COMMITMENT/EXCLUSIVE


A) I'm going to put forth effort (no effort = no relationship) twords her./THINK IT OVER
REAL MEN ARE GOING TO TALK IT OVER WITH HER-communication
B) I don't want a relationship "I'm not going to put all my eggs in one basket"
OPTIONS OPEN-but basically dating
C) I want things to lead up to her being my girlfriend
POTENTIAL GIRLFRIEND
D) There are no other women other than my girlfriend/SHES THE ONLY ONE
LONGTERM GIRLFRIEND


YOU DONT KNOW WHETHER ITS GOING TO BE LONGTERM OR NOT, until you have wasted time

A man doesn't go from wanting a girlfriend to wanting a wife, he ends up with the woman he doesn't want any other man to have

A+C= long term girlfriend
A+B+C= option for a girlfriend
A+B=friend with benefits
A+C+D= long term girlfriend
A+D= long-term girlfriend
C+D= option for long term. girlfriend
+even though you are an option to start with given the right motivation he could make you a longterm relatinship
B+C= temporary girlfriend
B+D= temporary girlfriend

STARTS OUT AS OPTION. IF THERE IS NOONE ELSE AROUND THERE IS NO OTHER OPTIONS
There can't be options of its going to work out with with my girlfriend.

My comfort level with a girl is what determines her potential
If she has a negative reaction to me, she has little to no potential with me.
NEGATIVE REACTION = LOSS OF INTEREST
MEN GETTING BORED=LOSS OF INTEREST
What happens when men get bored with women
1 He gives you less attention
2 Stops talking to you as much
3 Stops seeing you
MEN ARE REACTIONARY

If I say "lets just go back to my place" then I just want to have sex.
ITS ON THE TABLE TO HAVE SEX
If I say "lets go out and do stuff.then come back to my my place"
ITS ON THE TABLE TO HAVE SEX

Short-term gf= just for sex
Long term gf= more comfort
If I say "lets just go out and do stuff" then I am comfortable with you.

Women, guys will say whatever it takes for you to get comfortable with them. So, you need to pay more attention to their actions than their words.
That being said..
If a guy talks about sex within the first week, that is the intention he has with you.
MAY NOT BE THIER ONLY INTENTION
SOME ARE MORE COMFORTABLE TALKING ABOUT SEX THAN OTHERS
But if a girl brings it up first he will talk about it, and go from there.

If a man has intentions of having a reltionship with you, he will court (romance as opposed to wooing) you, using chivalry and do little things to help you. He will make you a priority in his life rather than having you as an option for when he gets bored.

He will make future (short-term,long-term) plans with you. He will talk about and introduce you to his family. He will try to spend as much time with you as possible.

He will tell you his intent with/interest in you
Generally
+him getting into a relationship with you doesnt mean he wants to be in one.
+every guy/girl under 25-30 cheats. Guys=physically Girls=emotionally

how do you know what kind of man to date?
1. the longer he has been single the better
2. hes had his own place for a long time
3. the older he is and hasnt been married, the better
UNDER LYING ISSUE OF COMMITTMENT
4.he has been financially stable for a chunck of time

IF YOU ARE A GUYS FWB AND HE IS COMFORTABLE WITH YOU, HE WILL BE HIMSELF AROUND YOU, even if he doesnt want to turn it into a relaitonship

CASUAL DATING vs FIENDS WITH BENEFITS
Going out as a couple and seeing what happens / sex
Going out not as a couple / having sex


if a man is looking for sex he will have sex with anyone.  It just so happens when they look for sex they start at the top of the ladder and work their way down.

THE MORE DEPENDENT A MAN IS TO YOU, THE LESS LIKELY HE IS GOING ANYWHERE (cheat)

how to know a man is cheating
1 stops caring about sex with you
2 STOPS ARGUING ABOUT THINGS THAT USED TO PISS HIM OFF
3 when public things become private
4 stops hanging out with their old friends,that know you
5 becomes more independent
6 suddenly picks up erratic hours
7 on phone more than ususal
8 mood suddenly chances
(sad->happy)
9 CONSTANTLY ACCUSING YOU OF BEING UNFAITHFUL

Its harder for a woman to tell if a man is cheating
Men know a woman is cheating if his "alarms get tripped" -he can just tell
If he is also cheating, he isnt going to care if she is cheating


Men dont over think everyday stuff, most of the time we are on autopilot.
men are not all alike
monogomy is natural for women, not for men


temperaments of men and women. there are different levels of each
 laid back
neutral-
 straight forward
...floater in each...

sense of humor of men and women. there are different levels of each
 dark/dry
 no sense
 light
floating-

personality of men and women. there are different levels of each
dick/douche
nice-bubbly
neutral-changes
-someone that can be whatever they need to be whoever they need it to be with

Whether a man deserves sex is relative on the womans standards

For most men, there is a noticeable difference in the size of his erection based on the emotional connection that he has with a woman. Or it has gotten boring (nothing more he can get out of it)
Or he is cheating.
Generally(excluding outside factors), it takes a man 6 months to a year to create a genuine emotional connection to a woman.
It only takes a month to have a general connection

IF A WOMAN IS NOT PHYSICALLY ATTRACTED TO A MAN, THERE IS NOT ANYTHING HE CAN DO ABOUT IT

Toxic boyfriends/husbands


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